If you are hoping to be successful in the world of
seduction, you’re going to have to know how to be sensitive.
When a woman looks
at a man, from her unique perspective, one of the key things she sees is how sensitive
you are.
It can truly be a pass or fail characteristic. If the lady in your
life doesn’t see a sensitive side, she’s going to be put off. Personality
counts for so much, especially if you’re hoping to go further with a
relationship.
To begin with, it’s important to understand just what
sensitivity is. Sensitivity, or being sensitive, is just one of those things
that’s gotten such a bad rap as to make it virtually a taboo. But false
impressions are to blame for that, and we can dismiss such misconceptions here
so we can get on with the business of becoming a more sensitive man. But what
sensitivity really is, in truth, is responsiveness to things around you. It’s a
general sense of what’s going on.
Unfortunately, you may be thinking you’ve already got it
pegged. But don’t think it’s just a matter of self-awareness and a general idea
of the world around you. The sensitivity women want in a man goes a bit
further. Or, put more directly, women are looking for a specific kind of
sensitivity in men.
Here’s an example you’re sure to remember from some movie
you once saw: a young couple are walking along a street at night, and the
temperature is dropping. Conveniently, she had forgotten to bring a coat, but
he had remembered to bring his. He notices her shivering, and quickly offers
his coat to her, despite his own need for the coat.